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Question: “ God’s Blessings, Ma-Ryah. I recently heard you speak about a parent being able to transform negative patterns in his or her life so that the child or children do not have to repeat the pattern. I also have experienced that as I change the way I act and react to things, my daughter also changes since the energy that caused the behavior is no longer present. Can you speak on this a little more please and will you please help me identify the top issues affecting me and my children now so I may work on transforming not only myself but for them as well. All suggestions are greatly appreciated. Many thanks for your guidance.” anonymous in NJ

Answer: “ God’s Blessings! This is Ma-Ryah from the higher realms of God. Isn’t life grand? We do so enjoy hearing from those we have been honored to speak with communicate with us in this way. This week we hear from two of you who we spend time with and we do enjoy connecting with each of you in this manner also!

All you do and experience in life is to show you where you still hold as a truth any shadow of limitation, separation, isolation and fear. Every one you create with is yet another aspect of your own self and shows you this part of you. You already know if you have a reaction or attachment to a thought, action or experience then you do indeed have a shadow of limitation, separation, isolation and fear waiting patiently and some times not so patiently to be seen and embraced by the one who created it in the first place. One of the most exquisite mirrors for humanity is the children of your world. They join you in creating on any thought, word, action or deed that yet exists in fear and creates outside of absolute love without judgment.

Many times we hear from Human Beings, “ Why does my child act like this?” Those who have experienced us know we do indeed assist you to understand not why your child does what they do, instead to assist you to see what gift of your own self your child shows you so you may return to you a thought or belief of separation, limitation, isolation or fear and transform yet another aspect of your self to you. Of course each Soul comes with their own shadows to transform and yet those who come together as parent and child join one another in a dance of shadow and light! Perhaps a shadow is not seen within the parent so the child shall dance within the shadow knowing the parent’s love of them assists them to see through the veil of love what is difficult to see within their own self. As the parent remembers to accept without judgment the child and all they do and create within, the message received within the parent is, here is the shadow and yet here is great love. What a beautiful gift presented from one to another. What we also see sometimes is the parent does not always receive the actions and deeds of the child in this manner. They see it as something being ‘wrong’ with the child. Something to be fixed with the child. No, the child is creating in the most wondrous way possible to say to the parent, “ Here is something within you that you believe to be true. Here is something within you that keeps you separated from who you really are.” When the parent is able to see the shadows of self, within self, then it is no longer necessary for the child to create within it any longer for the parent to see and embrace a separated part of their own self. 

The challenge then occurs within the child for perhaps they have created within it so long they have also believed what they see and experience within the song of the shadow. As the parent transforms this within the parent, they now hold up for the child to see and experience what was once a truth, no longer is a truth. The Truth of love is seen as the transformation occurs and is experienced within the parent. The child is able to create the transformation of the carried shadow and use the energy already existing from the parent’s transformation and create the transformation for their own self in a harmonic way with grace and ease. We see this moment of creation between parent and child truly as a dance of shadow and light...In one moment of time the parent is dancing in the shadow and the child is dancing in the light to show the parent the beauty of the light. When the child is dancing in the light often times the parent is seeing and experiencing the shadow of the child. Always remember, whenever a shadow is seen to be experienced and remembered, it is always love that enables it to be seen! As the parent understands what the child is showing them and transform the shadow, both for a moment in time dance together in the light and the child is able to see what has been shown has been understood and now able to be let go of and transformed within their own self. Until this occurs, the parent now dances in the light and holds the hands of the child dancing in the shadows. 

One shadow being created within with you and your children is the shadow belief of, ‘ I can not live up to the expectation of those I love and so I will disappoint or upset them’....Feel within you the resonance of this as you think and then speak these words out loud to your self. Now you have the next step to create with, and we smile with you as we place these words here for you.

We applaud and honor the dance of parent and child. Remember, the children show clearly the thoughts and beliefs held within your world of separation, isolation, judgment and fear. What an exquisite gift these Souls bring into your world so you may remember how filled with Light you really are!

That is all. God’s Blessings.” Ma-Ryah