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Question: “ Hello my name is Antoinette and I lost my husband to cancer three years ago. I know that he is still with me. I am a firm believer in the afterlife. I have also had many experiences throughout my life with dead people contacting me for one reason or another...what I want to know is why it is so hard for me to make that contact with my husband or for him to contact with me? Thank you!”

Answer: “ God’s Blessings! This is Ma-Ryah from the higher realms of God. Throughout most of your life we do find you able to make contact easily with nonphysical Beings. They do not enjoy so much being referred to as ‘dead people’, since they perceive their selves as anything but dead. They merely do not have the physical body the same as they created within while in the physical world.

We send you much love and peace in order to assist you in the loss of your spouse. His transition was very difficult for you as it is for human beings who must watch a loved one in great pain and illness before transition occurs. We find the vibration of the name Jason around him and perhaps this name has meaning for you. 

The main reason you are unable to contact your spouse since his passing is because of two reasons. One reason is the strength of your pain, grief and sorrow. The second reason is created from the first reason. Because your sorrow is so great it creates within you a stronger desire to see him, to hear him, to feel him and to smell his familiar scent. You are like the Vessel we communicate through and many others who are able to be aware of Spirit and yet when it is of great importance to your self you do not experience success. He also had his adjustment to move through and to remember where he is in Spirit and to let go of those he loved within the physical world. So in the beginning you have two grieving and sorrow filled hearts reaching for the other and neither able to be seen or heard. Once he entered into the review of his life which began to occur in the fourteenth month of his transition he then found it easier to be able to connect with you upon the completion of his review. He does come around and he does make contact with you. Perhaps you have felt your chin lightly touched and tilted upward, and if you have not felt his touch at this point, patience and you do indeed perceive his touch. Since you sent this letter to us we find you have had visitation in a few dreams with him. Know each time he visits in that way it is indeed a visit with your self.

Your love of him is strong and your pain at the absence of his physical self with you is great. We do understand it is difficult to be patient and to know you do in time perceive him. The time since his passing seems very great and you long to see him very much. Until you are able to do so, know he does come by to see you. He does sit on the side of the bed and stroke your chin. He says he has held you several times in the last few weeks while you slept and that you sleep more where he once did, then in the space you occupied when he was physical. He says to tell you he has no head pains or eye pain any longer. His stomach and lower abdomen does not hurt him any longer and he is breathing fine! Yes, he does realize he does not breathe in the same manner as a physical form but he still experiences breath.

Speak to him as you already do and include him yet in your conversations. When he enters your mind and heart strongly, thank him for being with you and helping you to communicate with him. Consciously invite him into your dreams and though we do understand this part is difficult for you to do at this point, let expectations go and know he does come near you. In time you experience sight of him though it is able to be brief at first. Your desire to hold him is known and it is okay. In time you do have sight of him. You are also able to meditate while holding his picture over your heart and as best as possible, quiet your thoughts and allow feelings of love to take you into meditation where it is easier for him to contact you.

May your heart be at peace and the love you have for him fill you yet...That is all. God’s Blessings.” Ma-Ryah