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Question: “ Hello Ma-Ryah, My father passed in 2003, and my mother in 2005, and sometime after their passing I experienced a “dream” that seemed real to me. In my “dream” my dad was comforting me. I could feel his embrace and smell his cologne. He told me he was going to “ set me free”. I felt so safe and protected. I recall many of my living relatives in the room I was in, in my dream. There was a man that I perceived to be a doctor in my dream, too. I had the feeling that the doctor was there for me. I began to cry as I emerged from the “dream” to an awake state. I felt panicky and short of breath. I was trembling. No one was home and I felt desperate to connect with someone on this experience. I called my trusted sister-in-law and was able to vent to her. I didn’t know what the “dream” meant, and I feared that maybe it meant my dad was coming to get me so he could take care of me, as I had been in a nervous and depressed state after losing both my parents and was not happy in marital life. Today I still ponder what it all meant. It was as real as could be. Would you have any insight to this? I’m so unsettled inside. God bless, Diane K. “

Answer: “ God’s Blessings! This is Ma-Ryah from the higher realms of God. We shall be pleased to answer your question as we do see it to be.

We shall begin our answer at the end of your question. Of course the passing of both parents was difficult for you and as a human being it would indeed be unusual not to have difficulty with this experience. We do understand, as a human being that the perceived death of a loved one is very difficult and experienced as painful even if you hold the belief that death does not create an ending but merely a return to Spirit and continuation of consciousness. To lose both parents within a short linear space of one another is difficult.

When those who have shared your world with you leave the physical world and death is experienced it creates a difficulty in the human being who remains within the earth plane. For some, this pain is lessened by the beliefs they hold according to the teachings and understanding of their religious or spiritual beliefs. Some times this creates a shadow within the human being because there is the self-judgment upon self that you ‘should’ not be responding as you are because they are in a ‘better place’. While the knowledge held of a Soul returning to Spirit and absolute love is able to ease the pain of physical separation it does not take away the physical longing to still interact with them within the physical world. You still miss touching them, smelling them, hearing them and seeing them! Your pain of loss is great!

One way for those who leave the physical world behind to still connect with and be part of the lives they leave behind is through the dream state. You are able to discern within the dream that it is more than a ‘typical’ dream usually experienced by a human being. As you were able to know within the dream of your father, it was very real and much more than a dream. It is indeed what we speak of as a visitation from the Soul you know as ‘father’. He still is able to interact and communicate with you and for him the easiest way to connect with you is in the dream state. Here, within the dream state you are able to touch, smell, hear and see in a very real way the continued consciousness of this man. He brought into the dream state representations of those who yet walk this earth with you in order to assist you to see though the corner stone so to speak of your familial connections are gone from this world, yet are you still vitally connected to family. Reach out to them, communicate and redefine now where and how you connect with them. The doctor was shown in order to communicate to you the importance of having the guidance and care of a physician in your life. To not ignore the subtle signs your body communicates to you of the effect and disharmony of your body. Grief and stress assists in the disharmony being experienced within your self and it truly does not matter if it is seen as ‘real’ or ‘valid’ by any one, including your self. What matters is, you do not ignore or push aside the communications of your body. We do find imbalance in the heart as well as the stomach area of self. We do advise you to heed the communication from father, though we do reassure you it is not life altering. It is able to be brought back into balance with attention and care given to it. Your heart was so strongly shielded after the death of your Mother, following so closely to the death of your Father. In order to not feel the depth of the pain you instead shielded it in order to be able to create within your life and to do what was and is vital in your own life. The unhappiness and dissatisfaction you speak of in regards to your marital status also assisted in placing the shield over your heart. In time such shielding within the human beings creates an imbalance and distortion, or illness within the human being.

Your Father communicates he is setting you free and he desired very much for this message to be received by you. It is beneficial you were able to feel and know you are safe and loved. As a daughter to your Father, you desired very much to live up to his expectations of you and your life, even though he did not often in life express disappointment in you or your choices. From time to time, as in most human beings experiences of life, he was not always pleased with the choices you made in life. Not because he expected more or differently than you created, but because he did desire happiness and ease for you. Even greater within you is the desire to please and not upset Mother. She was in the physical as ‘force to be reckoned with’, as is often said within your world to describe a strong personality and being within your world! Her life was very focused and very much sought to be controlled. She was as a physical being, very aware of how actions and life appears to others. She placed great value on the ‘right’ things being done. She also would swell with pride and love when she would receive praise upon those she loved, though she would not often express this pride with words ~ She would express it with her stance and her smile. For both parents you have chosen many things in life based upon what you perceived your parents ‘expected’ you to do, whether or not it would have been their truth. You are free now to create your life based on what do you choose for self, and what do you choose to know and experience? You have lived a life of balance for most of your life as you understand balance to be and it is in accordance to what you hold to be your truth, though indeed some of it is of course based on shadow as all humans do create at this time. Like many other human beings you set aside a lot of your dreams, hopes and desires in life. What do you now choose to create now that your journey is in a different place? Your Father lets you know it is okay and your new journey and choices are blessed, approved and supported by his own self as well as your Mother.

It was also not unusual for you to cry upon leaving the dream visitation. You knew at the time it was more than a dream, you knew you truly were spending ‘time’ with your Father and awakening created a separation once again. Know there really is not a separation. Those who you love who have returned to Spirit are always able to be near you and still create with you. Know consciously they are able to enter your dream state and visit at any time. Invite them to visit often if you choose and continue creating with them.

That is all. God’s blessings! If you desire any clarification or more information on this, just communicate once again and we are quite happy to respond once again. “ Ma-Ryah