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Question: “ Dearest Ma-Ryah: I have been wondering about my sons and if they will both marry and be successful ... Marion D”

Answer: “ God’s Blessings! This is Ma-Ryah from the higher realms of God. We are pleased to respond to you.

First we shall of course speak in a most loving way ~ we hear the fear of Mother in this question. Like many other human beings you desire to know your children shall not know pain, suffering, discordance, unhappiness, rejection and such ~ and yet at the same time the ego is seeking this reassurance there is also the knowing of how much you have your own self learned through these teachers in your own life. Perhaps it is important at this moment in time to remember this part of life. You learn from the teachers of shadow as well as the teachers of love and light. If you replace the word teacher with experience it also means the same thing. It is here you are able to insert a smile we send to you as we communicate these words.

In wondering about how your sons create in the perceived future moments of life it is important to remember to be present in this moment of life. What is the ground work being set into motion within their life? What scripts do they receive from you and from others they create with during this time? What scripts do you see they seem to carry that are perhaps slightly different than yours? Do they know self-worth and value? Do they know to trust the guidance as well as the choices they make for their own self and to not judge whether it was a good choice or not?

The eldest son carries the script of struggle. He works ‘hard’ for everything at this point. You are able to assist him to see it does not have to be this way. When he begins to celebrate the areas of his life that are seen as ‘easy’ he is able to begin to shift this script.

The youngest son carries the script of not taking things seriously. While many viewing this script from the outside would perhaps not see how this script is a shadow, we say, it is not a shadow unless it covers a more subtle shadow. To not take things seriously in a shadow way covers up the knowledge of one’s responsibility in what is created and experienced. He is very gifted at directing things away from himself and getting others to see and do what is his to do.

Do your sons marry? Yes we do see this as a choice made within their lifetime. To see them able to marry and have it be a harmonic blending as well as love based, assist them to see this part of life within their life now. Lovingly guide them with the celebration of who they are in this moment. As they address parts of self they do not enjoy assist them to see this part is indeed teaching them a lot about their own self and how they view ~ and therefore experience life.

Are they successful? If they believe they are worthy of being successful, yes they are. If there is any part of self that does not believe they are able to be successful, to build upon it rather than to diminish or to lose it, then yes they are successful. Does their view of being successful necessarily mean the same to them as yours does to you? Not always. Over time dialogue with them, ask them how they view being a success. What does it mean to them? Are they able to truly see themselves within it?

You are able to look upon your sons and see the parts of them you celebrate and rejoice about and know this is also part of you. You are also able to look upon your sons and see the parts of them held in judgment and know this is also part of you. The aspects of them held in judgment, see where it is within self, transform and heal this part of self and then watch as these aspects transform within your sons.

Trust your guidance is enough. Trust and have faith that you assist them to see and know what there is for them to see and know and to the best of your ability you prepare them for the perceived future. They shall indeed create exactly as they are here to create and experience and you continue to do your loving best with them. Trust the balance that is part of your Universe ~ God’s blessings!     Ma-Ryah