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November 18, 2007

Question: “ Greetings Ma-Ryah. My daughter works for a large multinational organization and has had a terrible amount of stress and upset in recent times due to unfair treatment. It really has been awful because she is such a loving and kind person who deserves so much better. Unable to have her situation addressed appropriately within the organization, my daughter became ill with stress and upset and had to register a tribunal claim for sex and race discrimination in order to have the matter resolved. Ma-Ryah, I am very worried about this situation and fear that my daughter may not get the justice and peace of mind that she deserves. I would be so very grateful if you could provide some guidance and reassurance at this time to put her mind at rest prior to the forthcoming tribunal on the 21st of November. Love and blessings, Aruna”

Answer: “ God’s Blessings! This is Ma-Ryah from the higher realms of God. We shall scan the energy of your daughter. Your daughter has very beautiful eyes, the color deep and clear and her eyes very shining. We also enjoy the ever so slight dimpling that occurs with her smile. She has the ability to create peace and ease in others by the gift of this smile and understanding eyes. She seeks to create with honor for her self and others. And yet for this experience to arise for her, she holds a fear within her self of not being clearly seen for who she is beyond the gift of her physical presence. She is not absolutely sure her merits are seen and appreciated, i.e., her wonderful mind, as much as her physical is seen and appreciated. On one level of understanding, why would she create within an experience which gives her an opportunity to speak up for the value of her work, when for all surface appearances she does appear to create as though she is quite certain of her work being seen for the quality that it is? Therefore why interact within a moment of experience to speak up in defense of the treatment she receives? It is exactly that explanation. To be able to speak calmly and from her truth. No matter the ‘package’ so to speak, her work and what she does is beyond question. She does deserve respect for the quality of work she creates and is therefore unwilling to receive anything less.

In preparation for the upcoming tribunal we would advise her to look upon the words and actions which create the emotional reaction within her of fear and worry. See what she defends against and worries and fears against when thinking or speaking of these events. If there is a reaction which is then seen as necessary to explain or validate as just or not then there is a held perception of fear this may indeed be true. This perception lies within her not the ones she speaks about. Ask her self does this resonate as a fear anywhere within myself? Ask her self, is there any part of me that fears it is not able to be seen for who I am, not only what shows on the exterior? When she answers these questions, works with the answers and understands whether or not this is indeed a truth within her or a fear which does not have validity in this moment of her life, she is then able to bring a harmonious resolution to this experience. If she creates defense from an emotionally charged fear perception she may not receive the harmonious result she seeks.

If she indeed believes in the race and sex discrimination as having no value in regards to her self and who she is within and knows the results of her work does not depend on her sex (gender) or race, then she is indeed fine and receives the results she seeks. If this is not a full knowing within her, but has attached any fear it may be all she is, then her result shall not be successful in achieving her desired results. There is great truth in the words, Know thyself. When you are able to honor self and know what is perceived as being “ deserved”, then all communication is able to come from a place of calm and centering, not attached to any fear what is said or done is not indeed a truth. When there is no fear attached to the response there is no emotional reaction attached and thus what is seen is more easily communicated and experienced. Ask her self, is she afraid or does she believe any where within her thoughts and beliefs that she is seen in this way, rather than the merits of her work and mind? Once seeing and knowing the answer, once comforting and transforming the knowledge within her self, she is fine.

For your part be aware of the fears and worries you have about the results she achieves. You know she is extremely intelligent and able to communicate clearly and from a place of knowing inside of her self. Trust all you have taught her through the years as well as remember to celebrate the moments in time she has amazed you with her accomplishments. Know what is your fear, your beliefs of how others may perceive her and indeed your own self and be cautious of projecting your unrealized fears onto her in order for her to create an experience to assist you to know more clearly your own self. She is very capable. Trust her to achieve a harmonious resolution.

That is all. God’s Blessings.” Ma-Ryah